There is no such thing as the Friendzone.
Friendzone is simply a pop culture creation to give content to numerous love themed movies and TV shows. In fact the idea itself comes from the fact that you heard it or saw it in the movies and hence see your situations from that perspective. The panic from being categorized into the friendzone by no way means that you don’t have a future shot with your chick or on the contrary you ever had a chance in the past for a shot with the girl. The one law of love is that if it’s supposed to connect it will happen no matter what and if it’s not supposed to connect it will end in the most disastrous of ways if you try and connect it by force.
Just do a simple thought experiment. In your stupid group of friends where you assume you are the best group in your college let’s say one of your friend is a boy named Virat Kohli. He is just an abusive, egoistic and trash talking wannabe cricketer and he doesn’t even have the signature French cut and blazy tattoo the Virat you know today has. Virat tries desperately to have a girl by his arms but is friendzoned because his academic career is not that promising and well who wants to bet her booty to someone who dreams of making a permanent position in the cricket team. But he completes the group and you keep him but the girls safe zone themselves by keeping him in the FRIENDZONE. Virat is sad and channelizes all his aggression on his sport and with the change of time turns himself into the Virat you know today. Now Virat won’t be FRIENDZONED even if he choose not to take a shower for 50 days. Forget FRIENDZONE, its very likely that Virat most get into a relationship with his ordinary old college chick friends but he would get secret one night stand offers and as for you, you would get a long lecture on relationship ethics and love rules even if you try to touch her lower back after being in a one month relationship. You don’t blame the girl for that, it’s totally her choice but admit it the fact that you are not sexy enough for the girl to take a bold step and break her own rules.
If you feel like you are being zoned into the afro-mentioned friendzone take my advice continue to be in the friendzone. Rather friendzone her back in return. If Want to be her boyfriend, then test yourself with the passage of time and see if you evolve into something sexy. Compel her into taking the step and just return your love back in immense amounts rather than you giving her something simply satisfactory and expecting from something special in return. If not then at least be a good friend and stop crying.
I know it sounds brutal and you won’t agree, in that case it’s embarrassing of you to check of relationship advice on the internet. Go learn something new instead!!!!
