What to do if your lover is having an affair.

One unlucky day you found out that your lover is having an affair. You are heartbroken. All your efforts and oaths of love flushed down the toilet. You were just being used and filling the void space of a husband/wife or maybe she lost interest in you. Don’t worry. It is no reason to be sad at all. Be glad she/he has not killed you yet in a conspiracy with his/her lover and robbed you of your money. Don’t be sad either because if you caught your lover in an affair you can easily kick off the demise and rather start being awesome. You should do exactly what Barney Stinson would do “Stop being sad and start being awesome”.

To do that all you need to do is start having an affair yourself. Here is why:

• If you otherwise start to organize an intervention, then interrogation and then a break up ritual which would be a pointless waste of time towards being single.
• Your affair would be guilt free and easy to acquire because the person upon hearing the fact that your lover already has an affair would feel more secure to get into one.
• On that note try to have an affair with your lovers partner itself if he/she exists in the picture. And if the person he/she is having an affair with is single then have an affair with someone who is single him/herself.
• In such a condition having and maintaining an affair would a walk in the park. Your lover is already cautious, anxious, obsessive and scared regarding getting caught. So she would ever give a damn about suspecting you in the first place because she is busy hiding herself.
• Sometimes even in the most tensed of moments where on relationship ethics you are supposed to suspect him/her and you don’t. Because you already have the peace of mind and you get what you are entitled too. Seeing this nature of yours, your lover will deep down be angry as to why you are not getting hurt or missing her on an emotional level and he/she will not dare to question it.  This thought might actually cause her/him to come out of the affair.
• Now whether she/he choose to come out of the affair or chooses to stay in it both ways you are on a very safe side and he/she cannot your fidelity or choices because you already been on the other side of the knife.
• So instead of choosing to stay heartbroken and lonely and whatever sad emotion the world invented, rather choose to commit an act of infidelity and be sin free while at it. At the same time love your lover and keep showing gifts and kisses and be one of those few people who gets the love of two people and lets someone have the love of two people.