My mother told me various things when I entered adulthood. She told me I will see growth of my feminine organs. She informed me that my v*gina will bleed for a week ,once every month. I was also told about the pain that I would have to face during my periods. Hair growth at different parts of my body would be normal, I was and am aware. But ,she forgot to tell me that being an adult I will fall for a boy. I will have emotional feelings for him. I was never told that I will give my heart to him. And he will drop my heart from a great height. Falling in love, heart breaks! Crying for hours,hating the person once you loved! This all is a part of adulthood. I must have been told. I felt so uncomfortable because I thought I am the only one suffering from this emotional pain. I should have known... This is absolutely normal. There was no need to get addicted to the drinks and cigarettes for forgetting that person. Cutting my wrist was never a good idea, My mother should have told me, no boy is more precious than my own self. To the teenage girls who are reading this - You are going through this phase or shortly will go through it. You will experience emotional trauma. No need to worry. This is normal, totally! It happens with every adult. And at last, it doesn't matters how deep that feeling was. You will get over it.

The most important things,that being a teenager you need to know....