It may be difficult to notice these things, but they’re for your own good. You need to know how your partner feels about you and if you’re not going insane for someone who’s simply not that into you.
Some of the signs are:
As two busy working adults, it’s hard to make sure you get enough time together. But you notice that you’re always the one having to instigate it and plan your dates.
When you do spend time together, you should enjoy it and have fun and feel like neither one of you wants to be anywhere else. When it gets to the point where you’re having anxiety because you feel like you’re a burden on one other’s social life, then it’s a problem. No one should ever make you feel like you’re not good enough, especially the person you’re supposed to count on.
If they need you, you never fail to show up. But when you need them, they’re nowhere to be found. They take you for granted.
You constantly worry that the relationship is out of balance, or that you’re trying too hard. If someone is making you feel that stressed out and uneasy and insecure, you shouldn’t be with them. It’s important to have a good idea of what your relationship is like, but you shouldn’t spend every waking moment worrying about it and wondering if something is seriously wrong.
You try to make them a part of your people. And instead of returning the favor, they don’t even act interested in any of your endeavors. They’re very private about their life as well. and they don’t make any efforts to change that. There’s always some sort of lack of communication between the two of you.
