There are certain do's and don'ts that we all follow in a relationship. We try our best to avoid these 'don'ts' but somehow, we accidentally committ them. There are certain relationship mistakes women keep making over and over again. Here are 10 commandments for women on what to do when you have a partner.
1) Do not make your partner your only priority and forget your own personal lives and friends and family in the proces.
2) Consciously take some 'me time' out of your 'we schedules' and pamper yourselves too. Do not spend all your time with your partner.
3) Nurture your own individuality and have your own identity apart from your partner's. Take time out for yourself and utilise it by doing things which would make you feel empowered.
4) Do not be completely transparent with your partner because the more transparent you are, the more vulnerable you get. Also, your partner shouldn't be the only person with whom you share everything.
5) Do not have blind faith over your partner. Keep your eyes open for any sudden behavioural changes in your partner or relationship.
6) While it is not wrong to be giving in a relationship, rather that's what makes the relationship complete, but giving to an extent where you put your own needs down is something which is not correct. In short, do not be too giving.
7) Do not forgive every single time. If your partner is doing the same mistake again and again, then it is high time that you stop forgiving him and leave your partner.
8) Do not stop looking for yourself. Do not get too involved in the relationship that you forget yourself.
9) A woman should never rely too emotionally on their partner. Instead, they should have more people in their life to act as their support system apart from their partner.
10) Do not be financially dependent on your partner. Financial security gives you a sense of accomplishment and thus it is advisable for women to be financially independent.