REASONS WHY YOU SHOULD NEVER THINK OF GETTING INTO A LIVING RELATIONSHIP

ishita tripathi 09-Aug-2016

Living relationship is common these days as every couple is finding it a right way of coming close to each other. Besides being in a relation people are thinking of moving and living along with their loved ones. Living relationship is good as you get full support of your partner as well as it builds trust and maintains loyalty towards each other. But there are some very bad sides to it too. Here are my reasons why every couple should avoid going into a living relation. Have a look -

1. FIGHTS OR ARGUMENTS

In a living relation you get to know each and every minute thing about your partner which sometimes becomes a point of a fight between the two. This is the most common thing which happens in a living relationship because you just canâ€™t handle any wrong side or you can say wrong behavior of your partner towards you. Even in small thing, fights tend to happen. For one partner a thing might be right which on the other hand is considered wrong. Fights might also rise and even result in harming one another leading to just crying over the decision of moving together. Fights are now a common issue between couples.

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2. SOMETHING PERSONAL DOES NOT REMAIN PERSONAL AT ALL

This too happens a lot in a living relationship. If something you want to hide from your partner you just canâ€™t. It might be a birthday surprise even or any special day plans, it canâ€™t be just kept hidden from the other partner. The things which you think are not to be told to your partner it just an impossible task to keep it away from your partner.

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3. YOU CANâ€™T LEAD A LIFE YOU WANT OR YOUR FREEDOM IS TOTALLY LOST

I mean before doing something you have to think about your partner will he or she will like it or not. You have to work according to him or her and follow what your partner wants you to follow. Freedom is no more a freedom to you. Drink, dress, sleep, eat either together or donâ€™t eat at all, this becomes the situation.

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4. AT TIMES YOU FEEL LONELY

If your partner is out for some work and you donâ€™t have anything to do at all it becomes a boredom to remain lonely in the house. Staying alone is the like hell which nobody wants to deal in.

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5. YOUR DECISIONS ARE NOT MORE YOUR DECISIONS

Either it will result in fights or you have to work according to your partner. The decisions you make in your life are not more your own ones. They have to be justified once and then be discussed with your partner in order to fulfill it.

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Itâ€™s a very tough decision to live together in a living relationship as if it has many benefits, on the other side it do has many flaws too. So just be careful and if you are in a relationship you should take care of it properly and like I always say understanding is a must for any relation to success so maintain it.