Another name for a relationship is COMPLICATIONS. In the Beginning, any relationship looks so perfect, happy and full of excitement and surprises. Everything looks so cute, happy and positive. We enjoy watching movies together, going to parks to enjoy quality time, bunking classes, holding hands tightly, kissing each other and making out. But this "utopia" doesn't last long. After 6 months, this so-called "happy-happy" relationship ends and then we are Back to reality. No more shona, baby, janu, Darling, sweetheart. First all he would want was his girlfriend, but after some time, he needs his friends also. He wants to hangout with them and give them time as well. This really hurts the other person who is left alone who doesn't know what to do and where to go. The issue of trust and insecurity also comes in the relationship. Then there comes a time when everything gets so messed up and complicated that we need space from each other. Sometimes this 'space' thing works out but other times, it complicate things further. Another problem arises when he has to balance time between his family and girlfriend. Because of family duties, he is unable to give time to her which offends her and make her feel ignored and not wanted. Sometimes we actually avoid each other and don't want to see each other's faces for some time out of frustration, anger or any dispute. There are constant quarrels because of some reason or the other. Distance make things even more complicated than they actually are. There's this constant fear of your partner cheating on you or maybe that he don't love her like before or maybe he has found another girlfriend for himself. Distance brings in these doubts very often and we don't know how to deal with them.
Being with someone is a special and a good feeling. This cannot be denied. But this good relationship brings too many bad complications along with itself. This complication can also destroy a relationship and make things worse. Well I guess, if you want to enjoy any relationship, then you also have to go through the complications that come uninvited with it.