So you are thinking about breaking up with your partner and seems like you will bring an emotional tsunami upon him/her and you will be the cause of some ones sadness and lack of composure for a few days or who knows quite a long period of time. But it’s a very important task you need to do by any possible means and so you gather all the courage, practice the script and even set up some background to conclude the task smoothly. You also don’t want to look cold blooded so instead of being a chicken and writing him/her an email or text you want to do it face to face. So you move ahead towards the event and with lots of circles and labyrinths you finally break the ice and say it to him/her “We can’t stay together anymore”.

Now before you twitch your facial muscles and press your eyes to forgo the emotional trauma your recently exed partner is about to undergo instead you are greeted with a smile and a pat on your back and to add a cherry to the top a hug after which words like this follow “It’s ok. It was a great sting we had thank you. I hope you have awesome future endeavors” after which he/she simply f**ks off out of your room.
 

Now you just been bitched on the face in the most impressive of ways because such a reception could only mean two possibilities:

• Either your partner was playing dumb or pretending to be in a relationship to fill some casual void and since the last few moments was wanting to breakup him/herself.
• Or She is looking someone who seems potentially capable of being attracted to him/her or having an affair and just aced her a good riddance.

 

Both of the cases shatter your ego in pieces and you want to go back and confront him/her regarding the recently occurred events that should cause sadness at some small level or else you would be convinced your presence holds not much of a value.

 

Wao what a blow!!! Enjoy the identity disgrace

 

However, the one hypothetical possibility you did not consider is that your partner might really be into you to the extent that he/she does not want you to feel any pressure or burden and hence the altruist reception. Which seems too good to be true.

 

Now let’s hope such a thing never happened to you and might never happen to you but if you are the one on the other end receiving a break up call the above thought experiment might tell you how do deal with it.

 

• First of all be a “MAN” (even if you are woman)  
• Show your partner that you were the altruist all the way till the end
• Be confident of the fact that you will find someone else again so let yourself be open to everyday crushes
• And if he/she is breaking up for a stupid reason then let him/her know that he/she was a junk waiting to be thrown.