"She will be pretty for I ll cover her flaws

She ll be wise for I'll cover all her mistakes

She will be strong for I'll check all her weaknesses.

She will be mine n only mine for she ll make my world shine and her staying together will be no less than impact of the wine!"

These are perhaps the thoughts that today's young couples who are in a relation endure at their start of their new beginning. However the essence of these words fades with lapse of time. Why is it so? Why the love that makes the start of a relation, weakens to an extent of relation's cremation! Why the pair fail to stay on their commitments! Why the attachment that happens is forgotten too easily!

Is this because the new generation is easily influenced by boredom?

Perhaps today the love relations are too  transient to be compared with the days of "love lasting forever with all the endeavours to keep the partner stay together". Today the couples make a commitment, promise to stay together till the end but soon they end up getting bored from one another and there are differences and misunderstanding giving rise to sceptical attitudes and lack of trust. Loyality, mutual understanding and compromise are the hallmarks of a successful bond but if any of these eclipses with the boredom, the thread of love lose its grip. 

Certain youngsters when were asked about the same reflected the idea that the "real is so rare today."

Commenting upon the "being cool trend", Sana pursuing her B.tech degree said, "I have seen people getting committed to each other just to show their peers that they are heading time and are indeed so cool and modernised. But relations made to just show off often end up soon and prove to be a waste of time."

Endorsing similar views and showing his sheer interest in today's love relations, Rahul an architecture student said, "today love is treated as a game, which is played whenever one wishes for and this often hurts the partner who actually gets serious in relation. Not only boys but today even girls today are no less in betraying and taking advantage of their partners. It's better to be alone then to get hurt by fake love."

Ridiculing  the gradual boredom that comes in most of relations today, Anjali of CSE stream said, "I have seen people entering in relation and getting bored from one another in just a month and yet they call themselves lovers once, quiet ironical! If you truly love someone your partners company won't ever bore you. True love is marked by excitement and happiness to see one another, no matter how long one has to wait."

Certainly gone are the days when lovers looked upon historic great lovestories,  gone is time when love was considered to be an irrestible desire to be desired irrestibly, gone are the days when love was worshipped and considered sacred.

Deep in roots influence of western culture is perhaps the reason for the unfortunate scenario in the our nation popularly revered for love, tolerance and togetherness among the people. People are blindly following the western norms and are letting their learnt Indian value sink deep in water. They are detaching themselves from their roots and are on path to become exclusively modern and western.

Indians by doing so are proving themselves to be a sheep following the flock of sheep blindly. Thwarting the Indian values is a sheer threat to our society's individuality.

Earlier this  fact is known sooner the change will come.

Though westernisation is the sole outcome if Indians keeps getting influenced by hollywood culture but a hope for a change needs to stay, for there's many a slip twixt the cup and the lip!