When relationship gets over there is emotional turmoil which we suffer from. Days and weeks we linger in those questions, ‘Why’, ‘What went Wrong’, ‘How to deal with life now’. But unfortunately we still don’t find any satisfying answer.  Sometimes we come across the articles telling us how to bring him/her back but practically, what if we don’t need that relationship anymore?? It is better to leave that relationship rather than just keep it going. Post breakup we mainly lose confidence and get the feeling of failure. But if this cant deal with this what about all those problems we are going to come across in life. So prepare yourself to face the situation tactfully, regaining the power we had lost.

So moving on is not just lessening the influence of our ex but also win back that emotional equilibrium and most importantly your self-worth. Maybe this failure can be a stepping stone to the success ahead. So let’s move on to biggest and better things...

Don’t Move On: When you’re ready to move on, then only you’ll move. Deciding to move on even before you’re ready won’t help you. It will only distress you. So take your time...

Stop Treating Yourself as Victim: Getting sympathy feels good but unfortunately temporarily. It only makes us more vulnerable. Be strong and positive. Start dealing with these issues on your own.

Tackle Grief: Suppressing the grief will only increase it and adversely affect your health. It may be fearful that it will be painful because you lost someone you loved so much. Face it and rid it off.

Entertain Yourself: Instead of sitting in silence for hours, discover new music or artist or novel. Join a dance class or cooking class.

Make a Comeback: I completely understand, refocusing the life would bring his/her memories back but still relax and make new priorities’ list. Plan a family trip, reunite with your old friends. In your priorities count him out!!