Relationships are made in heaven but are carved in the hearts of the people involved. Love alone cannot keep two people together, there are other elements which make love feel what it exactly is. These things are very important for keeping up with your relationship and make it last long. Maybe Forever. Take note of these:
TRUST: Trust is very important in a relationship as without trust you’ll never be able to see a person from the inside because everything he/she does will be alarming for you somehow and that’s the reason people loose true people at times.
RESPECT: Respect is the most essential part of a relationship as when respect is gone everything is gone. Once a person loses respect for his/her partner they start taking them for granted knowingly or unknowingly which is quite hurtful in many ways.
CARE: Once you are in a relation the other person becomes physically, emotionally and mentally dependent on you. You have to be caring so that your partner has the maximum comfort with you. They will know that they are never alone and have somebody to look up to. Always.
LOYALTY: A person who is in love genuinely cannot even think close of cheating and cheating is not only by hitting on to other guys or girls, cheating can be any form of unwanted secrets like lying, manupulating, excuses etc. Loyalty is the base of a relationship and a loyal person will have all the other “Needed” qualities by default.
COMFORT: Your partner should be comfortable with you be it emotionally or physically. They should never feel trapped and caged. Though fighting and argumenting are a normal part of any relationship but the other person should know that this is all temporary and there is nothing in the world that can separate you two.
UNDERSTANDING: Understanding is really important as two people who don’t understand each other can never really be in love. A person has this trust on their partner that they will understand them and their situation without even explaining at times.
These are the 6 Pillars of a healthy and long lasting relationship. If you are facing problems in you love-life then try reconstructing your bond on these stumps and see the magic.
