We all have heard of the proverb ‘once bitten twice shy’. This itself exemplifies how well we learn from experience. The personal experience leaves an indelible impression on our minds that are more lasting and invaluable. Like a good teacher, her lessons are very thorough and we can only ignore it at our own peril. Experiences could be good like helping a person in need or it could be bad like losing money on a risky investment. However, what is important is that we learn from them so that we can profit from our good experience while at the same time steer clear from those which are potentially harmful to us. Ask a child not to play with a matchbox for it can harm him will probably have no impact on him but once he has scored his hand by the match stick he will never in his lifetime forget this lesson. Thus we learn meticulously from personal experience rather than by adhering to the advice of others or by reading about them from books of periodicals.
It is, however, a wise man who learns from the experience of others like his parents, teachers or those elder to him. He also profits from books that are a virtual treasure house of knowledge and experience of others. We learn from everything we do in fact life is one great journey of learning. We learn patience and forbearance when faced with adversity courage in the face of danger and wisdom from our mistakes of omission and commission.
“Life is brief a little hope, a little dream and then goodnightâ€. In this short span of life, we should therefore not only learn from our own experience but should also profit from the experience of others. This would save us from many a pitfall and the unnecessary labour that goes with it which is akin to ‘inventing the wheel’