Feminism is a never ending sensational topic in our society. Let it be conquering moon or riding auto rickshaw , women’s have made it. But when it comes to relationship when we think about romance or paying a date bill or asking someone out we directly associate it with men. It’s a strong custom we believe in , even though women’s are equally capable today. But feminism is been misjudged or it tends to portray the belief into man haters or lesbians. This misjudgement itself conveys why gender equality is incapable with romance and also as an obstacle to relationship. Historically, a women status in a society or influence involved attracting high status partners. But as the years passed and gender equality played it’s role , the idea of relationship and gender roles in relationship is sculpted in a way to adapt with it. Suppose in a long term relationship where men describe the first sexual experience as a lack of influence whereas women’s describe it just happened to them. But in today’s scenario, women’s are trying to contribute equally in an relationship and also display a dominant sexual behaviour. One of the recent study suggested that women’s who gets a affectionate and caring partner were less interested pursing higher education and high profile occupations. Men agreed that gender equality creates problem in relationship. How it would be when the gender roles in relationships is shifted , where men gets to do household work and women’s contributing financial. A recent study suggests that such contribution in relationship makes it stable and strengthens the sexual desire. Gender equality is also an adding factor in making the martial relationship firm and also creates a major threat to divorce. It doesn’t mean that you must allow your lady love to pay all the bills , make her feel more responsible and make her understand you both running in same track. It’s no more a versus issue we are talking about , it’s about you and your relationship!