Why to date a Bad Boy?

Devapriya Bhattacharya 06-Feb-2018 Image Source

What is your type, typically speaking, Mr Nice Guy or the Bad Boy? Personally my dream type would be a blend of both but that’s’ just impossible so frivolous. Everyone knows why we would like to date a nice fellow, but still there are many of us who would crave to date a Bad Boy. Even the Nice Guy wonders why him? Sometimes they even try to be him? Mostly they lead to catastrophes, lets’ face it, trying to be something which you are not is never cool. But we don’t want to talk about that either. Here on this paper we will try to explore the reasons for which ladies like me are drawn to ‘Bad Boys’ like moths to flame.

1. Confidence

When talking to a girl, you need to be sure then undoubtedly you become more attractive. Often the guys feel very nervous and shy while conversing with the girl they like, this decreases the chances immediately. But thatâ€™sâ€™ not a problem of the Bad Boy, he is oozing of confidence, so he just walks up and makes a move without a care. This boldness make him desirable, while the other guy who would been more fit for the girl is trying to find the right place and time, the Bad Boy takes a step forward and creates bang! The girl admires this feature of his and is already impressed.

2. Mystery

Laying all your cards on the table may make you look desperate or boring. There is nothing new to know if you had previously shared. A predictability comes and events become boring. The Bad Boy never lays his cards, he is not fond of revealing itself that makes him a puzzle which we girls will love to solve. Nothing works better than the curiosity of knowing the other person, if you are searching a reason for making your first move. That guy sitting in the corner silently is interesting because I donâ€™t know him yet, this is the psychology which works in favor of Bad Boys.

3. Chase

Accept it or not, everyone loves a good chase. We always tend to want a thing which is off-limits. Normal guys seem pretty approachable and we know that we can date them. But when the question of Bad Boys come it, more often than not they seem way out of our league. This challenge what we love to take. The risks involved and the uncertainties and also difficulty of attaining the unattainable makes the whole process quite a thrill. So when we actually get to date the Bad Boy there is a sense of achievement too

4. Excitement

Most normal guys wouldnâ€™t even think of landing himself or you in a situation which could be potentially dangerous, they like to play it safe which is common for you. But we girls sometimes like to do something which is not usual for us. Taking on a bit of danger, just for the fun of it. The normal wouldnâ€™t give you the adrenaline rush but Bad Boy carries it with him. The Bad Boy will make you face some risks, they are will involve you in moments which will take your breath away.

5. Mind Thing

There is mending syndrome among many girls, the Bad Boy seems broken and they want to fix him. The girls want to save him often from himself, they want to become the light in his darkness. I the Bad Boy is a player, every girl wants to be that person who makes him hung up his jersey. Sometimes the concept beat him at his own game is also involved when a girl wants to date a Bad Boy.

These are some of the reasons why we understand Swift's 'The way I loved You' totally or somewhere deep down we want to be One Direction's 'Perfect'. But again this is real world and there are very less chances that the Bad boy will ever change, so if you are dating one, enjoy while it lasts. Bad Boys are mostly meant for flings, if you are on the hunt for soul mate then take a look on the normal guys.