There are two kinds of people in this world. The person who appreciates you and showers you with compliments the pleasant kind of people and there is this other group who use their mouths to criticise you. Those are the people who disappoint you and let you down. When around them, you are engulfed in a negative aura; you face disillusionment, sorrow, and embarrassment.

Talking about the so-called bad people, there are two kinds, the people who actually care about you and want to make you understand your mistakes and make you a better person. These are the people who say words or perform actions which disappoint you but they are doing that in order to make you comprehend your faults and rectify them.

In this case, you have worked hard and understood the source of the criticism. Yes! You have every right to get upset and even angry but at the end of the day, you must grasp the real intention behind the person’s actions and words, which had led to the sorrow. This act of reflection and acts of change which you will incur in yourself for your betterment and rise above the disapproval is the way of dealing with constructive criticism, which in the long run will help you to improve yourself.

Now we must see the second group of people who will insult you just out of spite. You may consider these persons as the true face of evil; the main motivation behind their actions is hurting you and letting you down. They prey on your vulnerability and make you weak through their words.

The main point is that you mustn’t let them crush your spirit, you must fight back. The thought which will help you in this situation is that they don’t know your worth but you know yours. You must not let them scar you’re your mind; you must protect the mind from unnecessary cruel words. In order to boost your spirit, you may indulge in activities which you love like painting, cooking or dancing. Read some of the inspirational quotes and restore your determination, the fire of proving yourself must never die.

In order to be the strong one, an important action which is difficult yet very important which you must perform is embracing your flaws. People who want to cause serious trouble will target your flaws first. You will get affected by those and become upset and angry, but after these feelings pass, you must forgive and move on. You will have to forgive them to relieve yourself of the burden then you must work on your faults and see how you can overcome them.

The main thrust of this piece was that no matter what others say to push you back, to break you, you must believe in yourself and rise thoroughly, with every fall you will come back stronger. No numbers of insults or criticism will decrease the spark of your eyes.